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Straight and Narrow

When traveling close to 1,000 miles, by car, it 's hard not to appreciate how smoothly traffic flows when people stay in their lane.

Simple yellow dashes that, when strung together, bring order to interstates stretching from one end of the country to another.

The process breaks down, though, when:

Rubberneckers slow down to gawk at someone else's misfortune.

Reckless drivers weave between lanes trying to get ahead, or...

Distracted drivers swerve, while pursuing something of equal interest such as a text, their CD player, or their own reflections.

I can't help but think that people moving through life are a little like cars moving along the highway. Life feels smooth when we are traveling in a lane we feel good about and when we are traveling at a steady clip. Things begin to break down, though, when:

We allow ourselves to be slowed down by negative people who find joy in our failures.

We weave in and out of lanes, desperate to find short cuts and ways to get ahead, or...

We move from lane to lane, distracted and torn between dreams, projects, and goals of equal interest.

Honk if you agree.

Shining off until tomorrow...

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    Posted @ 7/13/2011 4:21 AM by karlie
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    I am honking! Or if you decide to take a little known path, charting your own course and even if you stop for help, there isn't anyone there....? I still think even then that the situation helps define what the dream/goal is. And our committment to it.

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 6:16 AM by Misty
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    HONK! Interesting perspective. I never thought of it like that.

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 6:26 AM by marylou
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    Honk! your comments never fail to inspire although i don't take time to view them each day. Thanks for your positivity on life!

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 7:57 AM by Cheryl
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    BEEP! BEEP!

    I think my favorite observation is when you state "We weave in and out of lanes, desperate to find short cuts and ways to get ahead" and it so true for so many people. If we would all just dig in and do the work- whatever the work is- it would get done and done better.

    Happy Hump Day Friends!

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 7:58 AM by Cheryl
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    Done better?

    Is that proper english? I hope Mr. Kamhi isn't reading the comment section.

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 8:28 AM by Heather
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    HONK!!!

    Life is a highway, I'm gonna ride it all night long!

    Weaving from lane to lane (dream to dream) distracted by various projects...yep.

    Trying to find shortcuts...been there too.

    Slow and steady wins the race (and on the road gets there safely!)

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 11:10 AM by chaotickristi
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    i am with Heather.. exactly.. depressed a bitright now.. trying to find ways to get back into school that I can actually afford....

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 4:34 PM by Claudia
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    Actually, Chaotic... Heather is the PERFECT person for you to talk to. She managed to attend a private college (notoriously more expensive) and have virtually all of her expenses covered. If nothing else she could spend time telling you how she managed to make it work.

    Keep the faith. Persistence and tenacity is the key!

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 5:28 PM by Peggy
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    Toot toot!

    There's nothing like having a new driver on the highway(interstate) to see how many 'stoopid' drivers there are in the world.

    I found over 10 top songs that include 'highway' in there song title... google a few of them ... I'm sure Iggy Pop, AC/DC and Willie Nelson will bring back memories... Highway to Hell, Danger Zone, Two Lane Highway, Ventura Highway, Dixie Highway, Highwayman....

    Heading out on the highway tomorrow.... to visit rows, and rows and rows... and more rows of corn in Iowa City, Iowa... a parent.... ooops.... new student orientation at THE University of Iowa .... I'm gonna find me some SH!NE :0)

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 8:03 PM by Claudia
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    Wow, Peggy. Have fun! I will be interested in hearing how orientation goes. Take notes and report back on all the things that Shine.

    Posted @ 7/13/2011 8:55 PM by chaotickristi
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    @ Claudia.. thanks for the tip.. Heather.. email me?

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