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Rejoice! Today is the eighteenth day of the month - the day newcomers and veterans, alike, join together and participate in the House of Shine's time honored tradition.

High-Low-Aha.

In the true spirit of community, we keep the rules of play easy. That way, someone skating onto our website for the very first time can participate as easily as veterans who have been around for years.

Rules of Play:

Visit us in the Comment Section and tell us about your highs (best things that have happened since April 18), your lows (worst things that have happened since April 18), and your ahas (things you have learned since April 18).

As it turns out, we are pretty convinced that, "High-Low-Aha" not only keeps our community thriving, but that it also keeps you shining. The monthly invitation to ponder our successes, failures, and lessons learned is the perfect pause in our all-too-hectic lives. Without the break, we run the risk of not living purposefully.

I will start.

High: Getting outside my comfort zone, again, and participating in Leadershape at UT-Chattanooga; new work opportunities; thoughtful notes; updates to our house; date nights with Richard; helping others reach their goals; and welcoming new friends into my life.

Low: Rain; chilly weather; unfinished work; unmet responsibilities; and unnecessary drama.

Aha: I learned a lot this month. My most significant learnings came from people I met at Leadershape. I learned how different our experiences can be, yet how similar each of us is at our core. I learned that most of us impose more limitations on ourselves than others place on us. And I learned that I am growing more introverted as I get older.

Your turn.

Shining off until tomorrow... 

 

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    Posted @ 5/18/2011 6:52 AM by chaotickristi
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    wow... umm...can i use the last YEAR instead of last month? It has been about that since I was online (actually Feb 2010...sorry, y'all)

    high: moving to Long Beach, MS
    low: being unemployed for 1st month in MS
    aha: that I am of value regardless of what I do for a living
    aha: I am a human BEING, not a human DOING and my world will not fall apart if I spend time relaxing on the beach with a book

    As for what I have been up to for the last 15 months, will update you soon!

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 7:17 AM by molly
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    Highs: Marcus's baseball games, Jackson's adorable smiles, Cooper getting bigger and understanding more each day, having fun at work, i started running again and love it.

    Lows: my friend and right hand man at work is leaving me for another job, I had one of the toughest weeks at work in a long time filled with conflict and drama, I am often not as patient as I need to be with my kids and my husband.

    Aha: Putting the score of a baseball game up on the big board motivates kids. I know we try to protect them and teach them that winning isn't everything, but without a score, there's no motivation or reason to pay attention to what's going on. Add a visual scoreboard and our kids are playing like champs. :) Budget cuts make you realize what programs are worth it and what's just fluff.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 8:26 AM by Cheryl
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    Highs: I set up a new art table at home and have painted more. I have four large paintings going right now. If my air conditioner had to break at least it was on the coolest day of the month. Katy Trail 5K - finished in 36:02, the after party was fun with work friends. Warmer weather. My boys and how they keep me grounded.

    Lows: The cost of the new art table. Strep throat- bleh! My air conditioner broke. I've been so focused on the 4 large paintings that I haven't been able to do smaller ones. I've lost my mountain filter- this past weekend was darn right cold to me.

    Ahas: I really have no idea what I want!

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 10:33 AM by Claudia
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    Oh, I really love reading your highs, lows, and ahas. It gives me insight into what you all are doing when you are not hanging out at the House of Shine.

    Chaotic... so glad to know you moved to Mississippi, though we are sad to know you've left the state of Texas.

    Keep 'em coming folks! It makes my day. Do we have any newcomers who are willing to jump in and play?

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 10:57 AM by misty
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    Highs: Easter Sunday with my family, Suzuki Strings concert for Azlynn :), 31 cent scoop night at Baskin Robbins, Teacher Appreciation week going well, telling the girls about baby # 3, friends daughter first communion, making summer plans Azlynn lost her two front teeth, watching my girls be kind to each other.

    Lows: Not feeling quite myself, no energy

    Aha: A parking ticket cost a lot more than I ever dreamed!

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 12:04 PM by Cheryl
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    Misty's post reminded me of the dinner we had at my friend Kristi's house for Easter. :) It was a delicious meal and all the kids played well together. The adults played well together, too.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 12:24 PM by Katie K
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    High- beach weather; the end of the school year; attending a friend's wedding; a friend from college had her first baby; making plans to see my family in June; a student of mine from this past got into JMU for the same program I graduated from.

    Low- A student of mine is going through a really tough time at home; a co-worker is moving onto another position at another university; drama and tough experiences with students I supervise.

    Aha- The students that I work with every day impact my life in ways greater than I could ever hope to impact theirs.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 12:24 PM by Katie K
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    High- beach weather; the end of the school year; attending a friend's wedding; a friend from college had her first baby; making plans to see my family in June; a student of mine from this past got into JMU for the same program I graduated from.

    Low- A student of mine is going through a really tough time at home; a co-worker is moving onto another position at another university; drama and tough experiences with students I supervise.

    Aha- The students that I work with every day impact my life in ways greater than I could ever hope to impact theirs.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 12:41 PM by Heather
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    Highs: Being in a better mood this month than last, warmer weather, 30Walk, friendship with Karlie growing, being elected to a board position for our state association, losing 17 lbs for our work weight loss challenge, getting serious about the year of the Tri

    Lows: Ovarian cysts, trying to do more with less both at work and home, feeling like there is never enough time, a really awful situation at work in which I was intimately involved has made me realize the seriousness of my daily interactions with students...it really may be a life or death situation.

    Ahas: My husband's strengths are Empathy, Competition, Harmony, Relater and Consistency; it is interesting to see him embrace a very student affairs concept and run with it. He actually said to me last night, "well that's my harmony coming out". Also learning how expensive a good road bike is. I'm thinking I'll just be making do with a cheap mountain bike for now unless I decide I want to stick with triathlons in the future.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 1:49 PM by beekayroot
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    HIGH - The end of the school year, but not because all the students left... because I love everything else about the end of the school year -- our professional staff retreat, end-of-the-year recognition dinners, spending quality time with my students, etc.

    LOW - Lots of quarrelling going on within my family. It's such a downer.

    AHA - At our retreat last week, we talked about how EVERYONE has a story, but not everyone is willing to simply tell their story. You have to work hard at getting to know peoples' stories; and that means being proactive and reaching out to others, even when it's sometimes uncomfortable for you. It reminds me that even when I think I understand someone, that I probably don't understand them completely. I don't truly know "their story".

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 2:19 PM by Jen
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    High: Yayyyyy, I'm getting married!

    Low: Ughhhhh, wedding planning!

    Aha: Turns out, I have a pretty good capacity for letting go of what I thought I wanted. Can't find bridesmaids dress in the right shade of sapphire blue? Eh, that purple's good, I'll go with that. My church is kind of ugly? So what, it's just a wedding ceremony that'll be over before we know it. It's the marriage that's important.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 3:46 PM by Claudia
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    Jen... whoever you are... WELCOME and congratulations on your upcoming wedding.

    You have the right idea. The details that seem so important when planning a wedding pale in comparison to the decisions you will make as a married woman. Don't sweat the small stuff.

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 4:25 PM by Cheryl
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    That sounds like my friend, Jen...

    You are so right! It's a ceremony and a celebration and the important thing is that you and the groom are happy.

    And, they lived happily ever after.

    The End. <3

    Posted @ 5/18/2011 7:24 PM by Karlie
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    HIGH: Hubby's new law firm, great boss, great job, celebrating 1 year of 30WALK with website, great friendship with Heather that provides such amazing insight that my brain would not have discovered on it's own, Sophie growing up and her sense of humor delighting not only me but others, 30WALK event with new participants including girls and mom from the girl scout troop I spoke to about health!, field trips, church, sharing Easter with friends.
    LOW: fence is falling down, squirrels in the attic, roof damage from storms, hot water heater died, husband hurt his shoulder, dealing with hubby's former law partner's lies;
    AHA's: Sophie's sense of humor, intellect, insightfulness; celebrating something about each day is momentous; my dogs really love us and look for our approval; I love Mark Harmon on NCIS (ok not really an AHA, but ....'AHA!' :); My HOS friends embrace and strengthen me in so many ways. ks

    Posted @ 5/20/2011 9:36 AM by Jen
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    Yes Cheryl, it's me! My picture disappeared and I couldn't find a place to make it come back. User error, I'm sure.

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