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Mentoring By Mail

The activity scheduled on the evening of Leadershape's day-three is among my favorite activities of the week.

That evening is host to a panel of accomplished leaders, each drawing on their own experiences to answer questions, share stories, talk about lessons learned, and deliver pearls of wisdom.

I love the panel discussion, because I always, always, always, walk away smarter than I was on day-two.

On that particular night I spent the evening listening to Rick Hart, the Athletic Director for University of Tennessee - Chattanooga - a job that most of us agree requires well honed leadership skills. He shared a story I loved and that I thought was worth repeating:

Rick is a third generation Athletic Director, which is to say he entered his profession with a Rolodex already filled with the names of prominent people in the world of college athletics. Early in his career, Rick ran into one of these men at the airport and, while waiting for their respective flights, the two men spent time talking shop.

A few days later, Rick received a book in the mail from older man. The gift was accompanied by a note insisting that Rick read the book and that he be ready to discuss it by phone two weeks later.

Rick was young and a little flippant and, while he admittedly skimmed the book ("sort of"), he in no way read it cover to cover. The man quickly figured out that Rick hadn't read the book and, after exchanging some pleasantries, the two hung up.

The next week Rick received another book in the mail, accompanied by another note from this man-turned-mentor. The second time Rick was sure to read the entire book. Consequently, the second phone meeting was rich with personal and professional insights from the older man.

I think there was a third book and a fourth book and maybe a fifth, sixth, and seventh.

What is most important is that, in the end, Rick credits this man for his (now) love of reading and his insatiable interest in devouring as many books a year as his busy schedule will allow. That is a legacy worth leaving behind.

Last week, on that third day of Leadershape, Rick planted his own seeds in the minds of everyone who was listening: Just ten minutes of reading a night adds up to an hour a week and, over the course of a year, is the difference between reading zero books or up to twelve books.

I can't think of a message for aspiring leaders that shines more.

I considered the idea of picking up where his former mentor left off and sending Rick a book he must read in the next few weeks. And if not that, how about a House of Shine summer Book Club? Do you have a suggested book title? Visit us in the Comment Section and share.

Shining off until tomorrow...

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    Posted @ 5/17/2011 7:00 AM by Peggy
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    What kind of book? I did a quick google search to see the hundreds of light summer reads out there... and started a list... then I searched again.... this one came up and sounded interesting:

    Rumour Has it by Jill Mansell
    Tilly wants a fresh start and a chance to really shine!

    Although the book is English (British) I think they made it into the American movie in 2005 with Jennifer Anniston Rumor Has it.

    Posted @ 5/17/2011 7:37 AM by chaotickristi
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    I mentor a gal by mail as a penpal... it is a rewarding thing to be able to look back over the course of our letters (some 15 yrs worth) and see how she has grown and changed,.. as have I.
    As for book idea, I would like for people to read Richard Bach's 'Jonathon Livingston Seagull'. It is an easy, short fable in novella form about a seagull learning about life and flight, and a homily about self-perfection. I feel it is as valid today as it was when it was written (1970).

    Posted @ 5/17/2011 7:42 AM by chaotickristi
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    oops.. and you can read it for free online... forgot to add link..
    www.kulichki.com/moshkow/RBACH/seagullengl.txt

    Posted @ 5/17/2011 8:08 AM by Cheryl
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    I've recently had suggestions for The 4 Agreements and The Art of Racing in the Rain.

    I saw the movie Rumor Has It! Not sure how much it is based around the book (you know how sometimes movies are only slightly similar?) but it was about the Mrs. Robinson legend. That's YOU, Peggy! HA ha!

    Posted @ 5/17/2011 8:37 AM by Heather
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    As a professed non-reader of BOOKS I scrunched my nose up at this idea. I read alot of information just not in book format and the information I read typically has a distinct purpose (i.e. legislative updates from Washington, Title IX policy review, etc...) I probably would not have caught on even as fast as he did in terms of reading the books, I'd probably find it a bit presumptuous that someone could assume I had the time to read a book in two weeks time and shut it down for that very reason.

    Evidently I'm a curmudgeon. I'm well read, and have information about alot of things I just don't read SIMPLY for pleasure. I simply read for information.

    I think that's why I love the StrengthsQuest book. There is NO expectation that you read any of the book that isn't pertinent to you.

    Posted @ 5/17/2011 9:52 AM by Heather
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    left for a while and then thought that I wanted to add...
    I think it is great that the older man in this situation cared enough to WANT to mentor his younger colleague. Also, I think it shows alot about Rick as mentoring is hard work and the fact that someone was willing to be that invested in his growth as a professional speaks volumes to his professionalism.

    Posted @ 5/17/2011 3:55 PM by molly
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    I spent many years avoiding reading at all costs - too many years in school! Then I read a book for pleasure one summer while on vacation and loved it. I don't get to do it as often as I would like, but I do enjoy it from time to time and look forward to a time when my life is less hectic and I can read more often.

    Even though I didn't like to read I think if I would have met someone who inspired me to read more often I would have appreciated that opportunity. It's a nice story of how someone took the time to mentor a young professional. It makes me wonder what I could or should be doing to help someone who's just getting started in the field. Hmmmm...

    As for a summer book club for HOS, I think it might be fun. Claudia - I did take you up on a book earlier this year - Inside the Magic Kingdom - and LOVED it! I have been using it in a thousand ways at work. Thanks!

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